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Is there any strong punishment available?

Posted by Rewa Smriti on January 10, 2009

It has been discussed many times but let me put my words here. Yesterday, when I was watching the news, I was shocked at once to hear the news about the gangrape case of an MBA girl in Noida. It is not the single case, in another case, a six-year-old girl raped by an unidentified man in Mohali! There are so many such cases which have happened in many places before. This is not only in Noida, Panjab, Bangalore, Mumbai etc. but ranges from small villages to the big cosmopolitan cities. Indeed, it’s shameful for a nation which is trying to call itself ‘DEVELOPED’!

Somewhere it’s said, “There is a medicine for every disease a cure for every evil but none can change a man’s nature by any means!”

I am talking about some particular aspect of men’s mentality not overall mentality of men. Though we have crossed many social barriers and climbed many social stairs, but when it comes to treating the women with contempt it still remains the same as ancient. Everybody seems blaming the girls for the provocative dresses they wear. Allright! I agree with this and they have to take up this blame! The kind of dresses some of our friends wear even put us to shame. Provocative dressing is considered to be a big reason for such crimes today. However, can you find the reasons for a villager to rape a village girl who is traditionally dressed in Salwar Kameez or Sari?? Or we have to admit that the Indian fashion industry has made its way into the far reaching villages of this country as well!

Perhaps, some people say that we have to go to root cause…..whats that? You may say we have to educate them propelry, but why they don’t see that there are many educated people invloved in these cases. जब किसी की बहन के साथ बलात्कार होता है तो भाई कत्लेआम करने पर उतर जाता है और कहता है, जिसने मेरी बहन के साथ ऐसा किया है, उसे गोली मार दूँगा! लेकिन, जब इस मुद्दे पर बात करो तो “root cause” में जाने की बातें करते हैं, ‘Education’ की बात करते हैं, राजनेताओं के तरह दो शब्द “सहानभूति” की बोलकर राजनीति दिखाते हैं. Anyway, I don’t think we should educate them or look into the root cause. It’s enough to talk about root cause. क्योंकि, करते सब वही हैं जो उनके दिल को  भाता है, और भुगतना किसी और को पड़ता है! 

I agree there are such social organizations demanding severe punishment for the rapist and I think it’s justified. Till today capital punishment is the strongest punishment has been given. Some of people must be thinking that “Death Sentence” is the best solution. But, I believe this type of punishment is not going to affect much to people with such mentality. Death Sentence should be deleted from the constitution and instead of that we should let them alive, and we have to find such punishments which make them suffer for whole life!

Every problem has two types of solution. For that, we can approach the solution either from suffered people or from the system side. These types of problems have to be tackled from the system side, but we have to consider suffered too. As I think system has to ask victim who really suffer a lot. One can not take all the protective measures to get away from the rapist. So, the system has to provide the protection, and also make sure that justice is not only done, but also seen to be done! Sometime the responsible person doesn’t get punished. I would suggest that our system has to go in to depth of these cases. I feel this alone cause fear in the minds of many men who will think thousand times before committing any such crime.

Well, you may suggest very easily that we are the women of 21st century so face the situations boldly and don’t cry! I would say, please stop giving these type of inspiring suggestions…Most of the women know it very well.

Anyway, is there any strong punishment available? Which punishment is most suitable for a rapist according to you?

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53 Responses to “Is there any strong punishment available?”

  1. Shashwat said

    Indian culture was far more open than today, due to muslim and english invaders we went into a shell. I can think of 2 reasons for rising rape rate…1 is mentality another is provocative media and dressing. Both reasons are interlinked. We don see such instances in bihar, but look at developed states like Delhi, gujarat etc.!

    “However, can you find the reasons for a villager to rape a village girl who is traditionally dressed in Salwar Kameez or Sari?? Or we have to admit that the Indian fashion industry has made its way into the far reaching villages of this country as well!”

    I woud term it as frustration. Ek frustrated insaan mini skirt wali ladki ko dekhta hai, most of them wont hv courage to go n talk to them, lekin frustration nikaalega salwar kameej wali ladki par!

    Question aata hai, mentality improve karen ya sabhi ladkiyon ko salwar kameej ke liye bolen. I feel hamari mentality me jitni unnati hui usse kahin jada teji se media, movies, etc ne openness badhaya hai. Ektaraf delhi ka south ex hai, dusri taraf laxmi nagar. Jameen aasmaan ka fark. Jahan bhi itna diff hoga, problems wl b there, specially in a country like India.

    Hum development ki baat karte hain achi baat hai, lekin sabko saath me lo, ye nahi ek taraf MTV, dusri taraf DD1. DD1 wala frustrate hoga hi, explore karne, aaage badhne ki icha, peeche rahne ki kuntha, yahi kaaran ban jata hai.

    Another section of rapists so cald high/middle class, for tht i wud say gals n boyz both r equally responsible. Gals bcz of their dressing sense, boyz bcz of superioirty complex, a gal is doing well, male ego ko chot pahuchi, the best way usko peeche karne ka is rape, thts wht i polluted mind can think of. Aaj aurat har field me aage badh rahi hai, purush ne puri tarah se accept nahi kiya hai, clash hona swaabhaavik hai, fir badla lene ki baat aa jati hai.

    The best possible punishment could be complete social boycott of the person responisble.

  2. आपकी बात विचारणीय है पर यह देखा गया है कि जब भी किसी अपराध की सजा कड़ी होती है तो न्यायपालिका कम लोगों को सजा देती है। शायद इसका कारण हो कि वे एकदम निश्चित होना चाहते हैं कि अभियुक्त अपराधी है। यदि आप बलात्कार की सजा फांसी कर दे तो शायद बहुत कम लोग ही सजा पायें।

    मुझे तो लगता है कि सजा का स्वरूप बदलना चाहिये। जेल में रहना ही सजा नहीं है। शायद समाज सेवा, या फिर ऐसे लोगों को शहर की सफाई के लिये रखना या कुछ ऐसा करने को कहा जाय जो उन्हें शर्मिन्दा कर सके। फिर भी यह मुश्किल सवाल है कि ऐसे लोगों के लिये क्या सजा ठीक रहेगी।

    आप तो हिन्दी में लिख लेती हैं तो हिन्दी में और क्यों नहीं लिखतीं।

  3. lucky said

    some of the reasons.

    1- Sexual attraction with girls
    2- Sexual attracting cloths of the girls.
    3- Powerful & rich mens bad mental positions
    4- Use of WINE IN DANCE PARTIES
    5- INABILITY TO CONTROL SEXUAL INSTICTS

  4. Ektaraf delhi ka south ex hai, dusri taraf laxmi nagar. Jameen aasmaan ka fark. Jahan bhi itna diff hoga, problems wl b there, specially in a country like India.

    @Shashwat,

    Bikul sahi baat kahi hai aapne. India mein her samuday mein itna gap badhta ja raha hai ki use rok pana hi mushkil hai. Jiska ye sab nateeza dekhne ko mil raha hai.

    Media ke bare mein kya bolun, ab to unhe kuch bolna hi bekar hai…wo her seemaon ko par kar chuke hain!

    rgds.

  5. Shashwat said

    I think we are losing focus here, we r talking only abt 10% of population living in cities, their dresses n lifestyle. We shud focus on 90% of population living in villages and towns. Same problem with media, Noida ki khabar report ho gayi very good, lekin belgam me kya hua koi nahi janta. Ye candle wale bhi shahron me hi ghumte rahte hain.

    Please think abt 90% of population n discuss their problems.

  6. Shashwat said

    I quoted bihar vs. Delhi/Gujarat example, thats absolutely true. Why bihar is so BACKWARD in this area, coz bihar is really underdeveloped. I think yes, MTV etc. are not yet so popular there. People r still deeply attached to their root. I will tell abt my hometown, population 30,000. If i will smoke in one corner of town, 10 ppl wil come n complain to my parents. SOCIAL SECURITY.

    In delhi, a family living in 301 hardly knows or worried abt family living in 302.

    If someone misbehaves to any gal, majority of ppl stop having any touch with him.

  7. @Shashwat,

    I wanted to say same thing. We can not always blame a girl for her dressing sense! What about nun and a village girls? I can not blame their dressing sense, I would say it’s the dirty mentality of a man.

    rgds.

  8. Shashwat said

    India is a different country. No but we try to implement english culture over here, it will never work. If you have to tackle Indian problems u hv to think Indian way.

    India is surviving even after muslim, english attack only bcz our society is really closely knitted. Thats why almost every week we have festivals n all. If we wl try to deviate from this system, we wl hv to suffer consequences.

    Delhi ko Newyork nahi, Magadh banana hai.

  9. Shashwat said

    Lucky bhai, i agree but to some extent only. If u wl see devi logon ka photo, wht u wl say, much more advanced than todays village women. I read somewhere abt Magadh, wht gals were wearing. Not alrming like Gals goin to pubs n all, but yeah quite open compared to village standard. But even tht time, magadh had rule to discard a rapist from society. Rape cases were almost none. Yeah we can quote, naari ko ijjat ki najar se dekhna n all.

    So we shud not blame clothes only, ofcourse tht is one of the reason, but we shud also think WHERE SOCIETY IS GOING TOWARDS.

  10. Haan, main is baat ko to 100% accept karti hun ki ham puri tarah se apni sanskriti bhul rahe hain or western culture ko follow kar rahe hain. Lekin, ye ham sab kar rahe hain or ise kaise roka jaye ye sochna chahiye, kintu rokna bhi kathin hai.

  11. rohit said

    Hello Rewa
    Rewa tum bhi kiya likhne lagi ho….(Tumse Ummid nahi thi)….Totlaly bakwas hai…media ko poora dosh dena utna aisha hai jasie har ladka rapist hai, yaa her ladki mini skirt pahne to who sex object hai.
    ….Noida ki khabar nahi dete to kahte ki pass ke khabar to nahi di,…. Hum kahte hai ki Noida me aishsa hai to desh me kia haal hai, sab samaz sakte hai…….Media ki ladka ho yaa ladki jaati hai Risk leker aapke liye news cover karne…

    Socity is resposible.
    Or bura mane yaa bhala……isme 10 logo ki involvement ke karan log dhyan de rahe hai…jara unke villager Ki suniye .. They are saying that all accused r innocent. (What a great village!!!!huh!!!!!!!) sharame nahi unlogo ko….yeh kahte hue…… )See the villager and accused mother’s comment.)

    @ Bihar / Delhi…
    Plz Bihar/delhi ki jung na banaye…kahna nahi chaata per kahta hu……Delhi me Jo common gali hai, usper bihar me log marne ko tyare hote hai. Or jo Bihar me common gali dete hai kia who Badia hai….

    Me yeh nahi katha ki South ex or Laxmi nagar ka gap nahi hai….Per unka kia kare jo gap ko gap he rahne dene chate hai..

    @Shashwat
    Sory sir,
    Agar Koi development ka part nahi banta to who uski problem hai. Na ki puri society ki. Kisi ka Sexual worker hona uske rape ki permission nahi deta..theek us thare se ksisi ka mini skirt se kisi ko inferiority complex hota hai to yeh uski problem hai, apake society or family ki problem hai. Na ki mini skirt ki…….. Modern hone ka matlab yeh nahi ki aap ghar me beht ke wine ka use kare….beta bada ho jaye to uske saath wine lene lage…or na hi har cheez buri hoti hai…..

    @
    “”””India is surviving even after muslim, english attack only bcz our society is really closely knitted. Thats why almost every week we have festivals n all. If we wl try to deviate from this system,””””””

    Very sorry sir, em not agree. Before Muslim attack Parth Partha was not in india. Second Before Musilm attack not any indian king killed any children and women. …. U have very good knowledge of veda so u can understand my point.

    Second ..
    Diffrence social level per hai…..Noida ka village or Noida ke maal ka diffrence ek saath hai ….so jayda diffrence ke liye door na jaye……

    @ Unmukat
    Unmukat ki baat puri tahrah jayaja hai…..Hard Punishment is real and most effective solution of any crime. And only society can change the mind set.

    sory rewa for long answer, but it important.

    Rohit

  12. Abhishek said

    I learnt there are no absolutes. What someone think “Wright” might be wrong for someone else & vice versa. It is our limited human thinking that makes a thing ‘Wright’ or ‘wrong’ and for everything we will have justification.
    But I believe we can not have any justification for the exploitation of helpless,whatever the reasons. If our freedom hearts others we are not free there. We are not allowed to hurt others and “Rape”, it is not just hearting an individual it is the complete destruction of humanity to the core.
    One great philosopher said there are no such things as “righteous anger” or “justifiable killing”. But I feel very sorry to disagree with that great idea. Death sentence is fully justifiable for all those who are responsible for this heinous crime.

  13. Lucky said

    ==>Media ki ladka ho yaa ladki jaati hai Risk leker aapke liye news cover karne…

    bilkul sahi ….Sonu punjaban ka 1 ghante ka episode maine bhi dekha hai ..aur aapko bhi bata do ki mere desh mein prime time news ka heading ” 25 lakh ki call girl ” hota hai

    Shayad aapko bhi maloom hai ke mere desh mein media ka istar kitna gir chuka hai …….par aap man-na nahi chahenge !!!

    ==> Kisi ka Sexual worker hona uske rape ki permission nahi deta..

    kuch log kehtein hai ki prostitution legel kar de to rape kam ho jayenge ……aap kya kehna chahenge ???

    ==>apake society or family ki problem hai. Na ki mini skirt ki……..

    problem to sayad mini skirt walo ko hi bhugatni hoti hai …….ab kyu hoti hai ,ye wo hi achchi tarah se janti hai

  14. rohit said

    “”””bilkul sahi ….Sonu punjaban ka 1 ghante ka episode maine bhi dekha hai ..aur aapko bhi bata do ki mere desh mein prime time ?news ka heading ” 25 lakh ki call girl ” hota hai “”””

    Jo or kai Social programme aate hai, Une Dekha hai kabhi….
    Sonu Punjaban ki khabar dene ke baad kia aapne apne asspas kisi ki khbar ki….apake Ass-Pass Kitna kuch hota hai. per aap aage nahi aate…Akhir Kiyon…..Media fight tabhi kargei jab Janta aage aati hai……

    Kuch Programem se sara media ek jasia nahi hota…..

    Kisi player yaa student yaa kisi poor children ke liye appel khali kiyon jaati hai……….

    Problem Mini skirt me nahi hai….yeh ek example tha…. rape ka reason kuch or hai….Uske liye mini skirt ko dosh na de…..

    Or bhi kai problem hai…kia usper socha. nahi na….

    prostitution legel….
    Mere kahne ka matlab tha ki Agar koi prostitue ho to Kisi ko uska Rape karne ka persmission nahi mil jata hai…(Yeh ek Example tha)

    kuch log ki baat sare desh ki baat nahi ban jati hai…. Hamara kaam Problem ko batana hai,,, uske anwser sabi ko karna hai….

    Aap kitni baar ek saath bahara aaye right ke liye…..Kitne press wale Govt ka sikar ho jate hai…..media ki ladai aap kbahi ladege ..nahi na…..

  15. nikhil said

    Punish the culprits publically….

    Follow muslim laws in rape cases…!!!

  16. Nidhi said

    rape isnt abt sex.it is abt power,rapists shd b burnt at stake!
    capital punishment…bt nt in d ordinary manner..ways shd b selected so as to tel d guys n make thm feel wat de hav made d other person go thru.nd dis shd b shown to peple,so tht de knw wat a horrendous crime dat ws..

  17. ranjeeta said

    Men can’t blame women for their hunger. Death would not fit the crime. Cut their private parts and then put them into prison for the rest of their life!!

  18. lucky said

    Rohit ,

    Sajish samjho khali ,
    5000 saal se tapsya karta bandar ,
    do u think dhoni`s hair cut is a news ???
    KHALI naam kundli ke hisaab se ashubh
    Big B ko zukhaam hua
    Churel ka hamla, Gadha bana ghora
    pyar mein bure phase yuvi
    KAAL KAPAAL MAHAKAAL,JAI SHANI MAHARAJ,ACP ARJUN
    showing Magic clips of Chris Angel and David Copperfield and try to make it interesting by saying he is “Dev-Purush”

    I can write a whole book on these type of bloody news…Is this the media we are expecting to have in India ?

    Media is that news reporting in India is run by either advertisers or political parties. So while Aajtak and India TV are running becoz they have big ads coz of big viewership, NDTV,IBN and the so called decent news channels are running coz they get moolah from their political bosses. Most of these channels and other media does what is called Gotcha Journalism

    You do not get news in India what you get is footage and content purchased by someone from channels so that they would be given to you for free. In some cases it may seem explicit in some cases it is more subtle.

    If you want news, go listen to AIR or any international news channel. (And no they are not biased against India as the India media would have you believe. Why would the Indian media want their business go out of their hands).

    ==> Aur bhi kai problem hai…kia usper socha. nahi na….

    Bhahiya main yaha pehle se hi bahut badnam hu …..isliye aapki is bat par comment nahi karunga , Lekin kisi ke bare mein kuch bhi na jantein huye uski alochana karna shayad uchit nahi ..aage aapki marzi

    ==>Aap kitni baar ek saath bahara aaye right ke liye…..Kitne press wale Govt ka sikar ho jate hai…..media ki ladai aap kbahi ladege ..nahi na…..

    shahido ki maut pe paisa aapke hi IBN live aur NDTV ne banaya hai ……3,50,000 SMS ( with 9 Rs/sms) =31,50,000 sirf 3 din mein kamaye logo ki chita se ………. kher chodiye …yaha ye vishay nayhi hai

    ==> ka reason kuch or hai….Uske liye mini skirt ko dosh na de…..

    hum wahi to reason khoj rahe hai …….wo media hai , badta paschatya karan , fashion,ya sharshwat ji ne jo kaha wo difference …ya aur kuch

    lekin ek bat tay hai ki ..kahi na kahi ladkiyo ke kapde iska karan avashaya hai …….mein virodhi nahi hu aur kisi ko kuch kehne ka adhikari bhi nahi ki kya pehno aur kya nahi ……par ye sachchcai hai ….

  19. Nidhi said

    @ranjeeta
    i knw som peple mit b offended by dis..bt dis is wat i truly nd strngly believe in….
    a lady police oficer suggested dat rapists b castrated chemically.thats also an awesome idea.

  20. kiran said

    @Abhishek

    Don’t believe in capital punishment. It is not a good reply to their deeds. Rape is a big crime that could actually take the woman’s or the victim’s life away. It’s just like give them relif from the crime they did. I belive they deserve more than the death penalty.

    @Ranjeeta

    Nice suggestion. Atleast the fear of getting this punishment can stop some one to think twice before playing with the lives of innocent girls.

  21. Lucky said

    Why we always supportive for a strict law…..I think we shuld think about implementation of existing law !!!

    Only 18% rapist are sentenced for their crime . Only 43% rape victims are lodged the complained . out of them 16% are fake . 57% victims complained after 4-5 days of the crime……..For Rape victim it is essential to examine the girl within 24 hrs…Our court takes avg 480 days for any crime related to Rape.

    I think It would be good if we think about the cause….tough Punishment ( wat u ppl suggested, chemical 🙂 or cutting something ) is not the practical solution ……….

    Can we overcome the sex insticts..but how ??? We get lots of material to increase it on net …….every day 4,600 new sex websites coming to internet …. Our media is also playing a nice role ( MTv’s Splitzvilla,Fashion Tv,movies etc )to increse it ……. Its better to remove these sex enhancing things frm out society ………moedernism is not in mini skirts

  22. Dear all. . .
    Rapist must be given capital punishment or even more than that. . . . But the alligation must be proved clearly ,not only on the hersay of the women /girl.Clear evidence should be given and proved. I have seen many case where the male are innocent and he is black maled by the girls for some other benefite. . . . How to prevent it. . .?
    Second question is the sexual assault of a male by the female but she is not responsible for it at all ,how to bring it in law ? How should she punished ?

  23. lucky said

    ==>the alligation must be proved clearly

    How ?? Dr u can understand easily that it is hard to proove a rape after 24 hrs ……..n also how can we differentiate that it is forcefully done or not . I ,being a non medical student ,know only one symptom but its also not able to proove efficiently.

    ==> sexual assault of a male by the female but she is not responsible for it at all ,how to bring it in law ?

    Nice question …. waiting for comment on this question … this is rare in India …….but norway court has been charged a women 15,000$ for this.

  24. Shashwat said

    @Lucky

    “Its better to remove these sex enhancing things frm out society ………moedernism is not in mini skirts”

    I agree with it, also on media issue i fully support ur view.

    Regarding punishments which few ppl r suggesting, its impractical, can b implemented in our dreams only. Impossible to restore if we r divided on the basis of caste n religion, even if my jaatwala is a rapist i wl organise a rally in Noida to prove tht he is innocent.

    Kind of punishments u r suggesting can never b implemented, yeah bhadaas nikaalne k liye acha hai.

    Be practical guys, Now a days wht is the conviction rate in rape cases??

    Deshdroh se bada paap kuch nahi hota, afzal ko faansi tak nahi mili!!!!!

    History proves tht punishments r not enough to stop criminals. Why jail system is there? To keep a sentenced person out of society, which is agst human nature.

    Thats y i said, whn society wl start hating these rapists, wl stop having any kind of affiliation wth them, rape n eve teasing incidents wl come down. As i said earlier, in a village this system is still there,but getting polluted.

    We wl hv to restore this system, which is impossible to restore if Media wl show rape attempts with dhinchak dhinchak background music.

  25. Shashwat said

    One ques to all of us……..
    How many times we(guys gals all) help a stranger if he/she is in trouble?

  26. Lucky said

    Dhanyabad Sir ….Is dimag roopi gande nale mein ,ganga rupi aapke vicharo ka pravah ,man pavitra kar gaya …….

    @afzal ko faansi tak nahi mili

    congress tay kare…..2 saal mein file ke andar deemak lag chuki hai ……afzal ka ‘A’ bhi gayab ho gaya hai aur shayar “fazal” to pehle hi allah ko pyare ho chuke hai …….to ye to alag hi mudda hai …..kafi lambi bahas chahiye ….aap apne blog par shuru kare ye topic …..kyunki yaha to wo aazadi nahi hai bande ke pass …….waise “fazal” sahab ka ek sher yaad aa gaya ……..aapke question se bhi related hai …to mulayza farmaiye

    ” Tere shahar ke logo ki shakhsiyut hai shayad ,
    Koi marta bhi ho ,to usey pani na dena ……. ”

    Of course Shashwat ,we always help strangers …but it depends ,If the stranger is a rich man, if stranger is an girl or If we are feeling that it will improve our dignity or we are infront of a media or if we want to take a snap for pasting it on social sites …we do it…definitely we do it !!!

    par jab bat aaye kisi garib ka saath dene ……miya haath apne aap peeche ho jatein hai ….. bhai agar aap golgape wale ko pada rahe ho to bnglr ke kuch so called modern s/w engineer aap par hastein hai ….kher chodiye …… humein to pehle hi sabit kiya ja chuka hai ke hum bas boltein bahut hai ,kartein kuch nahi hai ..isliye main bhi aapki tarah logo ke answer ki pritikcha kar raha hu …….

  27. Lucky said

    ==>Thats y i said, whn society wl start hating these rapists, wl stop having any kind of affiliation wth them, rape n eve teasing incidents wl come down. As i said earlier, in a village this system is still there,but getting polluted.

    Sirji …yaha flat 803 wala 804 ko nahi janta ……kis se hate kare kis se love …..koi idea nahi boss !!!

  28. ranjeeta said

    I dont think excessive covering of a woman’s body will prevent rapes from happening. It does not matter to them if they are wearing a mini skirt or bundled up in a winter coat, rapists are sick in the head and they are out to hurt their victims.

  29. ranjeeta said

    Rape cases have a long history. There have been at least more than a dozen cases of molestation and rape of foreign tourists in India in the year 2008. These cases are not unique. You check an MLA’s qualification – 70 criminal cases with an ongoing Rape Inquiry.

  30. Lucky said

    foreigners ….. I have been udaipur,jodhpur and jaipur more than 6 years of my life…..The definition which we have in our mind abt tourism is totally different,wat it is in reality …they can do anytihng for money and drugs …… Pushkar is place famous for its “Brhama mandir” but for foreigners its famous for Gaanja ,same thing is happening in Jaislmer……65% of foreigen girls sell there body for 10gms of drugs…..Hundreds of girls living in udaipur after expiring of their visa…to overcome this visa problem they are marrying with indian boys ….They are really polluting our social structure …

    A recent molestation happened in pune this new year night with philliphins girls …report said they are fully drunk and wer kissing Indian boys …I think my society is not in favor of these type of things…!!! I am not able to understand that who was culprit ….!!!

    We are not core supporter of burka aur ghunghat ……..but at the same time we are not supporter of mini skirt,low waist jean aor low neck shirts …..I think something has to be hidden …after all this is wat we call “Ijjat”……. If something is visible …then someone there to see it ..!!!

    But these girls belongings is not the main factor of rape …..I think the media,movies and other sex enhancing things are more responsible ….We are facing obesity as a big problem in bharat……One of the parents from kolkata complained doctor that thier 7 yr old daughter doesn’t know how to tag her shoe’s less…how can she teach her to use napkins ……

    I believe this is the time when we hav to think …wat is good and wat is bad for our society ….. MTv,Fashion Tv shuld be banned in India ……..we hav to learn something frm china …..they hav banned 6200 sex sites from last week ….believe me , we can be a developed country without MTv and mini skirts ……

  31. Shahrukh Khan said

    Lucky,
    Comment#18 on Indian Media…that was good one ..buddy !

  32. kiran said

    “But the alligation must be proved clearly ,not only on the hersay of the women /girl.Clear evidence should be given and proved.”

    @Abhay

    The fact is, even if the rapiests get caught, if they have enough money or influence, nothing will happen to them. A woman would have to turn the case into a media to have a chance at justice and 90% of rape victims in India wouldn’t do so out of fear and shame. It is coming to limelight more and more due to media coverage.

  33. kiran said

    India ranks third in rape cases. You can blame if they can’t control themselves, BLAME THEM!

  34. kiran said

    Media is playing very bad for business. Media people are trying to destroy our society. Yea,MTv,Fashion Tv shuld be banned in India.

  35. ranjeeta said

    Many victims of rape can not get their cases registered at a police station. As for domestic rape, we can forget about it, coz the police wont even register the case!

    In the village, instead of reporting the case, they marry the girl to the same guy who raped her. How much more terrible can it get?

  36. nidhi said

    @ranjeeta
    u truely said.nd if its an already married woman,d fate of d woman dpnds upn d husbnd.if he is a bit opn minded thn ok,if nt he dumps her.

  37. Lucky said

    ==>In the village, instead of reporting the case, they marry the girl to the same guy who raped her. How much more terrible can it get?

    Some correction ……thet force boy to marry with that girl…..n I think its a type of punishment ,which is socially correct for both of them …n also make fear that if u do it with someone …..then u hav to marry with her ….!!! And this is not a law ( panchayat always runs on ppl belief ) …..this marriage can only be possible with the persmission of both the parties…..If someone not agree then they can drag victim to court ….and domestic rape is prodominent in muslim families …our judicial law cant do anything wen things come under shariya law !!!

  38. ranjeeta said

    Not exactly!

    Marrying with a rapist might seem like punishment, but it’s a punishment for a woman to marry the rapist. This may not seem fair to her.

    What if the rapist is married?

  39. ranjeeta said

    You are wrong, I disagree.

    The death penalty is not a proportional punishment for the rape of a child. I think child rapists should get the worst punishment possible.

  40. Lucky said

    I believe if there is any punishment exist apart from death sentence wuld be given to a child rapist ….!!! But we hav to c our trials …..kolkatta child rapist sentenced after 16 yrs ………can we wait so long ???

  41. Dear Lucky. . .
    Now the forensic medicine is so advance that the proper timing and mode of the rape can be established.So every rape victim must inform the police timely and the evidence should not be wiped.With the help of forensic science we can go upto victims. And they can be punished. But by the blind statement of women the rape must not be considered.Might be she is doing for money. . . . Today the women have a big weapon of section : IPC 3750&376. . . . Hmmm a blind weapon. And many of the innocent are destroyed by this weapon. . . . So i will request all my lawyer friends to take the proper discussion in it. And i will help in medicoleal aspect of it.
    @kiran.. . . Good.You are right. But they have to come in front.Our medical science and law will surely help them.
    And same as the rape ,the law for makes sexual assault should be defined and punishment should be given those girls /women as many of this case is considered as rape but in real sense its sexual assault.

  42. abhi said

    such gothic offenders doesnt deserve a normal life!

    these offenders pose a menace to the society!

    these offenders should b punished and not let off or forgiven of their crime(s)! may b chemical castration!

  43. anupam said

    Thanks Rewa! You know why i said thanks! life is too important to b taken so seriously!!God bless you!

  44. ( unfortunately that comment was delete ,Rewa can better tell abt it )

    @Lucky,

    Haan, maine aapke comment ko delete kiya hai, iska reason aapko mujhse pahle pata hona chahiye! Aap auron ke comments padhiye, sabhi ne topic ke anusar comment kiya hai. Shashwat, Abhay, Nikhil, Abhi, Abhishek, Ranjeeta, Nidhi, Kiran, Anupam. Insabke comment to the point and topic ke main issue ko reflect karti hai. Aap bhi sahi bat likhte ho but aapko apna tarika thoda theek karna hoga. Ham yahan MBA ki taiyari nahi kar rahe hain, balki society mein kya or kaise change lana chahiye uski baaten aaram se karna chah rahe hain. Main, faltoo ka bahas karna kisi se pasnd nahi karti hun, isliye baton ko ignore karte huye delete kar deti hun.

    Rape ko aapka koi bhi comment justify nahi karta hai, aap 1000 comments likh dalo, no problem. Maine rape wale post per wo sari baten likh di hai jo aap comment mein likhte ho. Kintu, women ka dressing sense logon ko rape karne ke liye kabhi nahi kahta hai, logon ko agar apne upper control nahi hai to use improve karen, yoga or medical ke madhyam se, kintu women per hamesha blame karne se dur rahe. Reason chahe hazar do, rape is a crime and I have already mentioned that
    “There is a medicine for every disease a cure for every evil but none can change a man’s nature by any means!”

    Dusre countries mein kya hota hai, mujhe usse koi matlab nahi hai. Aapko baat karni hai to, to the point baat kijiye. Faltoo ka bina matlab ke topic ko idhar se udhar nahi ghumaiye. Shayad toipc ka heading bilkul clear hai ki hame kis cheez per apne views dalne hain, isliye agar aap rape ko justify karne ke liye baton ko idhar se udhar ghumakar ise defend nahi kar sakte hain.

    Aapke karan pura topic hi bikhar jata hai, idhar se udhar baten ghumne lagti hai or main issue se bhatak jata hai. Aap dusre ke comment ka mazak banana chod den, ye bat pahle bhi agah kiya gaya hai or ab bhi kar rahi hun. As long as you or anyone write a comment in good manner they are most welcome to comment here, and their comment will be respected.

    rgds.

  45. mehek said

    har sikke ke do pehlu hote hai,hum bas itana hi kehenge,aisa vakiya kisi ladki ke saath naho,aur jo ye gunah kare uski saja aisi ho jo zindagi bhar na usko jeene de na marne de.

  46. Vishal said

    Aise haivano ko sareaam goli se uda dena chahiye.

  47. Vishal Verma said

    Hello Rewa,
    I must say that you actually have been highlighting the issues related to our society and country. It is actually appreciated. But the punishment you have suggested for the rapist of the MBA girl(let them suffer for their whole life) is actually not correct. We all live in a cultured society and we have got Court of Laws. I think we are not the one to decide what punishment the rapist should get but should leave this decision on our Court of Law, ofcourse they are the supreme authority.
    AND REGARDING RAPE INCIDENTS IN INDIA OR ANYWHERE IN WORLD..NO ONE CAN STOP THIS… ITS A HUMAN NEED FOR THOSE WHO DONT GET SEX WHENEVER THEY NEED…………

  48. ranjeeta said

    “ITS A HUMAN NEED FOR THOSE WHO DONT GET SEX WHENEVER THEY NEED…………”

    Vishal verma

    If someone forces you to have sex without your consent, it is rape. It has nothing to do with desire or passion. ABSOLUTELY NOT!

  49. ranjeeta said

    “We all live in a cultured society and we have got Court of Laws. I think we are not the one to decide what punishment the rapist should get but should leave this decision on our Court of Law, ofcourse they are the supreme authority.”

    Vishal verma

    There is no excuse or justification for the rape of the woman. Does the VED, BIBLE or QURAN permit rape? No culture who permits the rape of the woman. We are the part of society, we are the law makers!!

  50. kiran said

    “We all live in a cultured society and we have got Court of Laws.”

    @Vishal verma

    I think look at your own society, in all ancient history you can not prove that the man has to go to the woman whenever he likes to rape, to enjoy her however he wants. We don’t do these things in our culture.

  51. Vishal Verma said

    Hi Ranjeeta…
    “ITS A HUMAN NEED FOR THOSE WHO DONT GET SEX WHENEVER THEY NEED…………”
    what does it mean…it means we need to educate people if sex is concern..why we dont talk about sex at home with our kids..if this topic is discussed at home and kids are aware about this then only these kind of incidents can be stopped..

  52. Anonymous said

    Respected All,

    Journalism ke liye ye bade hi sharm ki baat hai ki Dainik Bhaskar Bhopal mein DB Star naam ke Editor Avinash Das ne journalism ki student ke sath rape karne ki koshish ki…yahi nahi uske mana karne par usko peeta.

    Aur jab us student ne yah baat sabko batayi to use dhamkaya gaya. Avinash Das naam ka yah editor patrakarita ke liye kalank hai. ndtv mein bhi rahte hue bhi isme aisa hi kiya tha jab use wahan se bhaga diya gaya tha.

    Is gandi harkat ko usne tab kiya jab ki wah khud hi university ka visiting faculty ban chuka hai. ab aap hi bataiye ki isse guru shishya ka rishta dagdar nahi hua kya?

    Is gande insaan ne us ladki ko dhamki dee ki agar wo ye baat kisi ko bhi batayegi to ye uske sath aur bhi bura kuchh kar sakta hai. isne us bacchi se kaha ki “Tum mera kuchh nahi bigad paogi. Mai Dainik Bhaskar ka Editor Hoon aur tumhara carrier banne se pahle hi khatm kar doonga”

    Avinash ke is gande kaam mein DB Star ke hi ek reporter Ashwini Pandey and Manisha Pandey ne uski khoob madad ki. in dono ne bhi us ladki ko khoob daraya aur dhamkaya..

    Zara sochiye ki ek ganda admi kisi Bade brand aur banner ka sahara lekar kya kuchh bhi galat kaam kar sakta hai. aaj usne ek student par buri nazar daali kal kisi aur par dalega. ho sakta hai ki ye aisi hi harkat apne office mein bhi kare.

    ummeed hai aap sabhi is mudde ko gambheerta se lenge.

    Dhanyawad….

  53. nidhi said

    IIT student held for murder

    A teenaged Naga girl was strangled and later burnt to death in South Delhi allegedly by an IIT research scholar who attempted to rape her, police said on Sunday.

    The incident was reported from Munirka late on Sunday night by the sister of the victim after she came back from work, a senior police official said.

    Pushpam Kumar Sinha (34), who is doing Ph. d from IIT, Delhi, has been arrested on charges of murder and rape.

    http://beta.thehindu.com/news/national/article38555.ece

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