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Love: A reality or a game?

Posted by Rewa Smriti on June 16, 2007

Dear Readers, you may get hurt after reading this post…but it’s just my opinion which I see around me these days, with this article I may be wrong but then I am writing….Please try to bear it.

Dhai akshar prem ka pade so pandit hoye!! I read this line many times but in practical I am unable to understand this dhai aksher. Few months back there was a discussion going on the topic of LOVE in our alumni forum. People were discussing about its meaning. I still think what is Love? Anyway, I have my own opinion about this, as I think ‘LOVE’ is not a simple word to be looked into dictionary and understand the exact meaning. In fact Philosophers and Intellectuals have been unsuccessful in defining love.

We find love in almost all relationships and I feel love is there, but when it comes to couple’s point…..I get confused and think, does it really exist? I heared a lot about love from people and I do not ever agreed with them. Sometimes, I found myself thinking about them and questioning my trust and belief on people. Also, I used to ask myself, it is after all only sentence that has three words – “I Love You.” Yet, how many of us are able to get the courage to say just those three words? Even if someone (guy to gal and vice versa) says ‘I LOVE U’. Does it mean same?? Well, I am not refusing the fact that it is a wonderful thing to say….maybe I have never been used to saying this sentence to my parents…but then, there might be so many other ways to express love and I am sure these gestures are always understood. I know each person’s expression and experience of love is individual and each person’s understanding of love is different from the next. Sometimes these are just mere silent words. ‘Silence speaks louder than words’ – the most important thing is to convey the sentiment, no matter what medium we follow- spoken word, written word, silent word or action! And of course one has to follow the traditions that are Compulsory in one’s life. ( By traditions I am referring to marriage)

Let me be clear here, I am talking about couples dealing with their love before marriage (affair, dates, romance). I wonder, is it still alive in this materialistic world or it’s just a wonderful time pass for them? What I see the “game” around me- “Love is really a game of how many hearts you can break, how many people you can make cry in their lives in your life time..!” What I feel is a great ignorance for emotions of one’s own and others as well. Feelings and all faith is lost. If you talk about sense of right or wrong logically, you are an obsolete, conservative and you are not so called a modern person who can speak English with fake American style like ‘Sko” (Let’s go!).

Love means the presence of a heart but in present scenario about 90% people are using each other in the name of love and I found myself completely immature and unable to understand this simple word till now.

I think to see someone in love is like seeing a Dinosaur. Hey friends, don’t get scared. No, no I am not talking about a scary look of dinosaur. What I mean to say, love is becoming extinct just like dinosaur who existed hundreds and thousands of year ago. In fact love is on the age of becoming extinct.

 Thanks for reading and tolerating my article…….. 🙂

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57 Responses to “Love: A reality or a game?”

  1. veerendra said

    Hmmmmmmmm

  2. veerendra said

    Before actually writting something significant on this topic, I think we need to define what love is.
    Love starts with an acquaintance where one tries to separate one person from a group of friends. This special friend becomes best friend and then attains such a place in heart that imagining life without him/her becomes difficult. This friend becomes friend for life or so called love.
    But love in today`s senario is entirely different. people filled with a desire to some how find a love, pop up in certain places like bars,college campuses and bus stops. They look for beautiful and attractive face and in most cases money. The whole affair starts with making personal comments or unnecessary praising the person till he/she discloses his/her cell no. This attraction based love (often called “pahli nazar ka pahla pyar) is prone to get deceived at any stage. Love of this kind can not sustain even a small blow of opposite circumstances while true love is what people generally die for.
    Therefore If u have read that posting above, plz try to see what might be the reason behind continuous failures in love.
    Breaking heart, ditching somebody are just some excuses to hide the attraction that is lost. So if u really want to be in love without getting worried abt ditching, just wait for having good friendship like u do with the people of ur gender. Love evoked with friendship without physical attraction is impossible to see failures.

  3. veerendra said

    Regarding what u wrote abt love-
    “I think to see someone in love is like seeing a Dinosaur”
    There are still few species of dinosaur left in this age generally known as crocodiles and lizard and hence true love in some sence still exits. Its upto u to find out those crocodiles 🙂

  4. Ek Ajnabi said

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    L♥ve : A reality or Game….

    *
    I think to see someone in love is like seeing a Dinosaur. Hey friends, don’t get scared. No, no I am not talking about a scary look of dinosaur. What I mean to say, love is becoming extinct just like dinosaur who existed hundreds and thousands of year ago. In fact love is on the age of becoming extinct.
    *

    Quite a hot topic. I appreciate the author to have courage to share her views about the L♥ve. Looking at her views I would like to say that:

    “Daastaan-e-gham-e-dil unko sunayi na gayi aapse
    baat bigdi kuchch aisi ki banayi na gayi aapse
    Sab ko aap bhool gaye josh-e-junoon mein lekin
    ek unki yaad thi aisi ki bhulayi na gayi aapse
    Ishq par kuchh na chalaa dida-e-tar ka jaadoo
    unhone jo aag lagaa di woh bujhayi na gayi aapse ?”

    *
    All the best to hope for the best …

    Ye ishq nehin aasaan…..

    Keep Smiling always
    Ek Ajnabi Dil se

  5. Atul said

    Frankly speaking, shayri of “Ek Ajnabi” is better than your beautiful explanation on your confused feelings/openion (Dont mind, you only says that you dont understand and confused about love). Somethings, you can not understand without practicals.

    Mohabbat ko gar samajhna hai to khud mohabbat kar,
    Kinaare se tufaan ka andaaz-e bayan nahi hota.

    ** Love is not necessarily has to be followed by marriage or any other tradition. I think Love is beyond all traditions and commitments.
    ** Love still exists that’s why people are still trying to understand it or discuss it.
    ** Somebody in the comments wrote that true love is what people die for. I would say this is not limit. Living for somebody is more difficult then to die. But its not necessary that you need to go to limits only then ur love ll be true love.

    ***** Just live happily n let others live. First love yourself, your life, your views, your ways to live life. Life is very beautiful n live it in a beautiful way then you will know what love.

    atulfokk..

  6. Amit said

    I just came to ofice, I was checking your blog and I saw this hot topic. I love reading your blog. I know only thing, love changes life so “TO LOVE AND BE WISE, NEVER CHEAT THE PERSON YOU LOVE.”

    Hosh walon ko khabar kya bekhudi kya cheez hai,
    Ishq kijiye phir samajhiye Zindagi kya cheez hai…..

  7. veerendra said

    Someone wrote…-
    “I would say this is not limit. Living for somebody is more difficult then to die. But its not necessary that you need to go to limits only then ur love ll be true love.”

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    I m not saying that one shud go and jump off the hill to show his/her love (That has been misinterprated by someone). All I want to say is love is such an intense feeling that true lovers dare to accept death than living separate lives.
    Hope u understand this simple and easy to understand logic. Fall in love and feel the same 🙂

  8. lets cheerup for the topic.
    “love is impossible to define in words” so goes the success of article.if you say love to be an exticting force then i dont appreciate that.pick up any news paper you will find love birds escaping their home to gettogether.such courage can only be achieved if you are in true love.history has witnessed many such stories and it will.nevertheless materialistic approch is ofcourese there in todays world.but that can not marginalize the feeling of togetherness.i will not say much but lastly would like to say”….”I dont know much but I must say that one must seat on her roof watching her spouse for the whole day in scorching sun’s heat..”.if that is not force of love then i doubt about the crediblity of this word.

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    “dil ka dard dil se puchho bahar aane par hangama hoga
    kambakht ishq bhi kya cheez hai,jab bhi nam lo sharmana hoga”

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    Regards
    Arun Bharti

  9. Dheeraj said

    Really very nice thought,
    arun is also true “it is impossible to define ”

    But this n all depends on persons if they gets their lover(GF or boy friend) before marriage then i think that is not wrong.(i dont hv any experience about it)

    —>
    if they ditch then they may not be comapatible or that is only TIME PASS.
    —-

    Love is really very beautiful if u really loves someone than u will hv some one whom u hv to care n he/she will be to care about u.

    The love of parents n family is always with everyone that is very strong and emotional.

    Thanks, for starting very interesting topic.

    ..Dheeru Bhai.

  10. veerendra said

    someone once said
    ” what is more important …To love someone or to be loved”
    I think the more satisfying and loving option is ” to be loved by someone.

  11. Atul, I have already said that love exists and I agree with your statement as you said that “I think Love is beyond all traditions and commitments.” Very well said! But, I think love before marriage is close to a game of chasing a gal or a guy if there is no commitment. I feel it is just a time pass, because I see people around me are running behind one after another gal (vice versa) madly.

    Logically, if there is no commitment in people’s words in such relationship then at the end anyone of them gets hurt from other. Do you think this is love? If this is the case I would never suggest my friends to be involved in this nonsense game where people will fool around you!!! As I think if one really really loves someone you will never hurt her/him.

    Arun, I am not talking about love for spouse which comes after marriage. To repeat I am talking about couples dealing with their love before marriage (affair, dates, romance).

    Mr. Ajnabi, Thank you for appreciating me. I will write a shayari to reply for your andaaz-e-shayari…. 🙂

    Dheeru, Yes, The fact is Love is the most important thing of human being which is difficult to be defined!

    rgds.

  12. And Mr. Romeo urf Veeru(Veerendra), It seems you got your Basanti 😉 Wait for a while I will reply back to you soon!

  13. Atul said

    “Suppose you want something X badly, that X is unique and you can not accept any other thing but X. But somehow you couldn’t get it and you know that somebody else is going to have X, going to own X and so you sucide… that means actually you loose it. I would rather wait till etrnity to see that X is safe and secure even if somebody else owns it, I wont die.
    All I want to say is love is such an intense feeling that true lovers can dare to accept death or can even go one more step – to wait and take care of there loved one for their whole life than living separate lives.
    Hope u understand this simple and easy to understand logic. Fall in love and feel the same.”
    People please dont mind.. I am just trying to write good lines.

    Can anybody tell me why do you want commitment in a relationship. And is being in love actually like being in a relationship??

    Somebody can love someone for his/her whole life without even letting him/her. Atlast somebody dies but never reveals his/her love. somebody looks at his/her loved one from far distances, follow his/her loved one just to make sure he/she is safe n secure, always think about him/her. Behind the curtain help him/her to any extent but that loved one doesnt know this somebody’s feelings and it goes on till the end of ones life. Dis somebody comitted anything to his/her loved one.. you may think NO. Is it not a true love. you may think NO. But I think different.

  14. veerendra said

    Atul said: “somehow you couldn’t get it and you know that somebody else is going to have X, going to own X and so you sucide… that means actually you loose it. I would rather wait till etrnity to see that X is safe and secure even if somebody else owns it, I wont die”

    Atul, As u mentioned in an assumed situation that suppose the girl X get parted from u. Do u think u will actually believe that girl is gone only when the guy is dead. Well with ur line “somebody else is going to have X, going to own X and so you sucide… that means actually you loose it” it appears so. May be ur connotation was different.

    The guy lost her the moment he was ditched…not the moment when he will actually commit suicide PLUS the guy shudnt worry abt X because persons like X dont deserve any attention. this guy shud remorse on what he did. Remorse shudn`t come in the form of suicide or any personal harm.

  15. Atul said

    Veerendra.. this can not be the only case that she ditched the guy ans so she is parting. There can be many more reasons. She coube be forced to live life with somebody else or could be forced to live alone. and even if she ditched the guy then also i think the guy shouldn’t loos… anyway,. no offences please. that’s my views only.

  16. Veerendra said: There are still few species of dinosaur left in this age generally known as crocodiles and lizard and hence true love in some sence still exits. Its upto u to find out those crocodiles 🙂

    Veerendra, you are talking about Crocodiles and Lizards but don’t forget that those crocodiles are amphibian. I mean to say they can hide themselves as per their choices in water and walk on the land if they really want to. 🙂

    Hmmmm…..And I have seen these Lizards changing the color as per convenience. So what do you say Mr. Romeo? 🙂 😛

  17. Mr. Ajnabi,

    Andaaz -e – guftagu kuch ghamgeen nazar aata hai,
    aapke lafzon mein waqt-e-rukhsat nazar aata hai…!

    I tried my best but aapke reply mein yah hi ban paya!

  18. Ek Ajnabi said

    *
    Andaaz -e – guftagu kuch ghamgeen nazar aata hai,
    aapke lafzon mein waqt-e-rukhsat nazar aata hai…!
    *
    aapka andaaz-e-byaan khubsuuarat laga
    kya farak padta hai gum ho ya khushi
    ehsaas hone pe sirf yaad hi reh jaati hai…

    Keep on Smiling Always

    Ek Ajnabi

  19. veerendra said

    rewa di is running out of internet for couple of days…I think this is the best time to do “ho-halla” here 🙂
    isi ke tahat pesh hai ek shayri ki line( not my creation)
    “saki darwaza khula rakhna ..shyad mujhe jannat ki hawa raas na aaye”

    next line agli post main ( bcoz its all abt making ho-halla here)

  20. veerendra said

    someone once said
    ” Love is an ugly terrible business practised by fools. It will tremple ur heart and leave u bleeding on the floor…and what it gives u in the end…few incredibe memories that u can always shake to enjoy.”
    Those who r new to love….follow the first line and if failed in love..last line is for u.

  21. Mr Romeo,

    Did you get Chandramukhi or what? Because saki ki baaten kar rahe ho, waise maykhane mein sirf chandramukhi hi mil sakti hai! 😉

    Ab yah mat kahna हंगामा है क्यों बरपा थोड़ी सी जो पी ली है 🙂

  22. Dino said

    I want to write only this line……………..
    just think…………
    Love is not merely looking at each other……..But looking in the same direction…….Together.

  23. Well I am not a writer by profession but I like this topic and somehow your message too…nice saying that one can hurts his/her good friends, blah,blah…
    but dear if somebody really does so it means he/she never loved the person, who he/she left behind crying throughout the life.

    “LOVE IS A SECRED RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE”

    Cheers,
    Jitendra Kumar
    9871819230

  24. veerendra said

    Love is both a reality and a game. It will some how make u feel how helpless u can b at point of time. Being is love is referred as “falling in love” and falling itself is a negative context. After all these flaws its a pleasure to “fall” in love and capture someones imagination.
    “Love isn’t about ridiculous
    little words,
    Love is about grand gestures. Love is about airplanes pulling banners over stadiums,Proposals on Jumbotrons,Giant words in skywriting.Love is about going that extra mile, even if it hurts.Love is about finding courage inside of you that you didn’t even know was there”

  25. dino said

    Pyaar se tab tak
    Pyaar na karo
    Jab tak
    Pyaar aap se
    Pyaar na kare
    Jab pyaar aap se
    Pyaar kare
    To pyaar se
    Itna pyaar karo ke
    Pyaar kisi aur se
    Pyaar na kare

  26. Nidhi said

    Love really is blind.

    But these days people are just trying to find somebody and expressing love. Aur tukka bhi lagane mei nahi chukte hein! haan kah di to theek hai, na kahi to bandi bahut bhav khati hai. 😉 Fir dusre per line marne lagte hen….like a game. A source of good timepass! hahaha

  27. Ek Ajnabi said

    kya tumhen pata hai ae gulshan
    mere dilbar aane waale hain?
    kalian na bichana raahon per
    hum dil ko bichaane waale hain….

    Nice to see many posts on the evergreen topic “The Love”….There will be no limits of fruitful discussions over this great topic as they say:
    wo pyar hi kya jo aasaani se mil jaaye…..
    Keep on pouring more about love and love waves….Once again many many thanks to the initiator of this beautiful topic….

    ye ishq nehin aasan….!

    Keep on Smiling

    Ek Ajnabi

  28. veerendra said

    Its not only important to fall in love with some one but to hold responsibilities and be a part of social changes that u can possibly do. What I want to say is those who suppose they want to go for love marriages or intercaste marriage shud come forward and set an example in completely derooting the menace of dowry. Do u deserve respect from ur life partner and her family if u wud have hurted them in the name of dowry.I think not.

  29. Interesting and feeling good to read so many responses and different thoughts on Love. Many Thnx to everybody.

    Nidhi and Jitendra, 1st of all I welcome both of you in my blog world!

    Jitendra, I agreed that if somebody truely love someone then he/she never try to hurt or left crying the loved person.

    Anyway, tell me one thing that “why we hurt our self for someone who doesnt care abt our feelings…why not save our love and care for someone who really deserve”!?? Yes, its quite difficult and painfull to be hurt but I would say never ever try to cry for the person who hurts you…always face the situation boldly. What do you say?

    Nidhi, you know tukka marne ke chakkar mei negative marks ka muh bhi dekhna parta hai. 😉 And result comes with minus marking! 😛

  30. Amit said

    I read somewhere that “A real man respects the feelings of others and behaves himself by keeping his emotions under control. On the other hand, animal don’t respect your feelings and acts against huminity.” So stay away from animals!

    If the men and women that are cheating probably do not know how to love anyone. I would say that they lust instead of love. As far as hurting loved once, they are also hurting themselves, making fool themselves and most likely have a poor self image of themselves.

    I would say to my friends that ‘Never hurt the heart that loves you!’

  31. Shikha said

    first of all i would like to thank to rewa di for starting discussion on one of the most beautiful aspect of life.

    I am really agreed with her views on true love that is really very scared in present era and thatsy its most precious. And the one who get it is the “King or Queen” of their life.But the corwn is never given to the head which is bowed down. So to give the proper respect to the crown of love on your head, oh my dear “Queen or King” be honest, loyal and trustworthy for the dignity and the blessing you are going to get. Here there is no loop for Betrayers who cheats their partners before marriage. They are just afraid of being caught in social custom and otherwise they are mentally sick. The love here is lust only as one of our friend mentioned above.

    In my views “Love someone who forget to live anymore”. Here the love is just the name of life or ‘GOD’. The sensation of life with others around you. It is a ‘responsibility’ not an ‘oppertunity’. So, feel the true love and learn to live forever and ever. Follow the tradition(marriage) and make it the most secred way of life.

    Here i really appreciate rewadi’s words “why not save our love and care for someone who really deserve!”

    So, just open your eyes and strech your arms to hug the deserved one standing near by you. 🙂

  32. Shikha said

    Atul says: “** Love is not necessarily has to be followed by marriage or any other tradition. I think Love is beyond all traditions and commitments.”

    I think here Atul is talking about the romantic love btwn the couples and here i am really differ with your views. Because if you don’t follow the tradition(marriage) then you are going for the ‘live in relation way’ which is really a ‘false face’ of your true love. Do you think our parents were not be in love? or was it possible to make a society like us where still marraiges exist more than divorce in your ‘so called love way’? Please don’t mind i have no intention to hurt your feelings.

    Veerendra, here i appreciate you to for making love marriages or intercaste marriages as a social reform and these all are result of true love. But still we having cases where the love marriage becomes emotional weekness for the parents and gals to pay dowry. Here love makes us week so we are ashamed of those guys, selling their love in dowry market at high range.

  33. Shikha said

    I forget to appreciate Ajnabi ji for:

    “kya farak padta hai gum ho ya khushi,
    ehsaas hone pe sirf yaad hi reh jaati hai”

    “Gum ke lamhon ki yadon ko ret per lakeer ban jane den,
    lahron ke sath aayi khushi mei, dil ko fakeer ban jane den!”

  34. veerendra said

    shikha..plz elaborate this line that u hv written as a reply to my comment.
    “But still we having cases where the love marriage becomes emotional weekness for the parents and gals to pay dowry”
    thanx

  35. “Love is really a game of how many hearts you can break, how many people you can make cry in their lives in your life time..!”

    Well and perfectly said by rewa!
    In my opinion love is a sin.love is a fear and ends with tears.In college lifes there are so many boys and girls are in love but that is not a true love but it is just attraction between two sex.When it comes to marriage they are ignoring each other.so i dont like to waste of my life time.

  36. veerendra said

    nishat ji.
    I fear after reading ur comment no one would ever dare fall in love. The terrifying situation that u hv described sure comes up with many couples but is not the destination to all.
    Plz resubmit ur comment and set many loving souls to peace which rather might feel uneasy with ur comment 🙂

  37. Nishat said

    veerendra

    whatever i have written is true and i think that it is happening 2day. true love is something that wants to end in marriage. but now most people are cheating each other and playing with emotions. i dont want to be waste my time in such event. i did not mean to make others scared of falling in love.

  38. shikha said

    veerandra…..i dont think a lot is tyr to elabrate ….nehow ,ita abt d w relational balkmail comes from the marriage point of view.the gal n her family wants still the acceptance from the society n here if there is a demand of dowry ….d love makes d gal n surely d boy also emotionally weak to accept it…..afterall every thing is allowed in love n war .

  39. shikha said

    nishat….i respect ur views. but dont tell love doesnot exist.it exist where the life stars,maintains it till end and preserve it far away from tis world n all its evil dids…soewhere safe n secure in d purest form…..just dont tell tat u dont hav time for tis n all….r v becomng so mechanical tat v just work n work,feed d mechine n entertain sumtime…?give time to love to live….

  40. Ek Ajnabi said

    ***
    Shikha ji Farmati hain:
    Gum ke lamhon ki yadon ko ret per lakeer ban jane den,
    lahron ke sath aayi khushi mei, dil ko fakeer ban jane den!”
    Bahut khuub.
    ***
    “khuda ki marzi se aisa waqt bhi aata hai
    jahaan paththar ki lakeer ban jaate hain ye gum ke lamhen.
    har leharti khushi bhi dum tod deti hai taqdeer-e-gum ke aage.”

    ye ishq nehin aasan….

    Keep Smiling Always

    Ek Ajnabi

  41. praveen said

    I read lots of thoughts about LOVE.
    wow feeling great, Thankyou

    Love is a power, a sweet smile, ek ahasas, ek chubhan,
    ek ajeeb se will power, ek tanhai, ek achhai,ek nai
    subah,phir kuch achha karne ki chahat,kuch bhi special
    wow great feeling,i do hope i will find MY LOVE ONE
    DAY.

    Thankyou
    Praveen

  42. Hi Rewa,

    How do I contradict the lines you wrote…..
    How can I state that its all truth….
    How can I state that its all untruth…..

    In my Prespective……
    Love is a relative Term….
    Its can be taken in many aspects……
    There are three definitions of Love that we generally relate to Human Soul….

    Love for Parents/siblings/kids/relatives
    Love for Friends
    Love for the better Half

    We all understand the Love that we have for your Parents/siblings/etc
    Bond that we share with Friends……..

    Here your defintion is more emphasized on Love for the one with whom we dream/ or spent our other entire Life…..Between Boy and A gal, Husband and Wife
    Trusting him/her to be the best and Loyal………

    Be it before marriage of After………
    But we ensure the Loyalty remains………

    What do I understand:

    For Guys: They think gals are not to be trusted.
    For Gals: They think men is not to be trusted.

    But if you read articles; why this concept or this thought has arrived in the minds of people….why the Love or the Loyalty is getting extinct…
    Is it that we are more inclined to the so called WESTERN CULTURE….why don’t we imbibe the Indian Tradition and rich CULTURE…
    Why do people get attracted to the western culture……….
    I personally never would let anyone to get more westernised in respect to the culture….i understand its attractive but somewhere the SANSKARS
    With which we are born and bought is invaluable. This is what is getting extinct, in the current generation. That’s the reason Love/Trust/Faith have just become mere words to
    Speak without any feelings and emotions.

    Love to be true is not yet Lost.
    Why one feels that is no more there; reason if a person has undergone some bad/bitter experience, so the TRUST is lost………
    Wherein if a person has undergone that emotion and is successful, it is BEAUTIFUL for Them….Maturity Even Matters

    One this is would like to ADD…….LIFE IS A JOURNEY…..KEEPS CHANGING AS PER UR DESTINY…………
    Its all your KARMA and Ones Luck………..

    It’s a Fact………..Love can not be always TRUSTED…….BUT AS PER MY GYAAN

    LOVE IS LOST….AS TRUST IS LOST……BTW TWO SOULS (BEFORE MARRIAGE) WHO……IT HAS BECOME A MERE INFACTUATION……..

    Enjoy till you have it and throw when you need it :)……………..

    Its all beautiful in college days and teenage dreams…
    But the reality Lies ………………
    Love Exists But The Thought of people have changed with Time….
    Commitmment is Lost……….
    IF CARE IS THERE , LOVE EXISTS IF NO CARE NO LOVE…………

    After MARRIAGE: STILL PEOPLE HAVE COMMITMENT AND STICK TO IT……..

    I would like to say: IF YOU WANT TO GROW LOVE; IT WOULD GROW….
    BUT IF YOU DON’T IT WONT……….THE FEELING PERSITS BUT MINDS HAVE CHANGED.

    Cheers!
    Vijayshree

  43. Expect Nothing…Give ALWAYS….
    HAVE AN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE…AS YOU LOVE YOUR GOD ………..

  44. Amit said

    wonderfull expressed by vijayshree.

    I…
    I existed…
    I kept existing…..

    and then I fell in love.

    Relations have been a very casual thing to me. People came and left…i never turned, never shed a tear, never felt hollow. Love is not i can’t live without him/her that is co dependency. Love is not i would do anything and sacrifice everything for this person, that is a distorted view. Love is and this is real, being able to accept the other person’s reality and being comfortable enough in your own skin to live as two joined as one….simple as that…and you don’t find it….it comes to you when you least expect it …everything else after it arrives is up to you.

  45. Jujai said

    hi vijayashree,

    I really admire your thoughts.I feel your ideas for ‘LOVE’ is absolutely admirable.I really appreciate your feelings and understanding towards love.

    LOVE!!!!!! What is love?????
    Love is a bonding where trust exist.love never ends. Love is something which cannot be defined.The most important thing in LOVE is believe.Its a bond without a written agreement. Love exist in each and every breathe (saans).Love speaks a lot without uttering a single word.

    “Pyar ek aisa ehsaas hai ki bewafa ko bhi wafa karne ke liye majboor karte hai.”

    Cheers 🙂

  46. Ek Ajnabi said

    Excellent exposition by “VijayShree”.
    I am sure that she has convinced all readers! Now no confusion should arise regarding the notion of the immortal identity “The Love”.

    So listen carefully….Love is saying something at every moment to every one: “fall in me fall in me …if you can!”.

    Ye ishq nehin aasan…

    Keep on Smiling Always
    Ek Ajnabi

  47. Nidhi said

    Ek Ajnabi- “Love is saying something at every moment to every one: “fall in me fall in me…”

    hahaha!…fall in love = fail in life 😉 dont mind ek ajnabi
    then you will say there is life after failure. again fall in love cause ‘love is blind’. how many times we fall in love. good time pass. I think it difficult to accept love nd finally wud say love is not enough.

    keep smiling 🙂

  48. choudhary said

    love
    realy this word has a magic
    if someone get fall in love he/she never think
    about using each other and other cheap thing they
    sacrify to each other.

  49. @Chourdhary, welcome to my blog! Thanku very much for your comment.

    You are very right. More or less it become complicated to understand. In fact i find these days Love is often misplaced then frequently abused. The love is tested over the years so it has to deal with full precaution.

    Thanks to all for comments.

  50. Ek Ajnabi said

    L♥ve : A reality or Game….

    —>> TO: *THE READER*

    Before thinking about this tantalizing and perplexing notion “The L♥ve”, one requires to possess: BELIEF, HEART, and PIECE.

    ->If you judge people, you have no time to Love them. (BELIEF)

    ->If you cannot l♥ve those whom you can see, ho w can you be able to L♥ve the God whom you never see? (HEART)

    ->PIECE-It is much difficult to achieve.

    One needs not to worry about these things because they are so natural that once one has touched a part or so of the strong feelings of Love, he/she/it automatically attains them.

    After going through deeply with the above three stepping stones, one tries to express a strong positive emotion of regard and affection for some one, that is usually named as “The L♥ve”

    EXPRESSION
    If u dont go after what u want, U ‘ll never have it. If u dont ask , the answer is always no.If U dont step forward, U r always in the same place.

    and finally,

    “A Ship is always safe at the shore – but that is NOT what it is built for…..”

    So, if you have been gifted the human life by God, you must fall in L♥ve (in at least one sense!).

    Good Luck

    Keep on Smiling Always

    Ek Ajnabi

  51. Hmmm….Philosophy can be found everywhere in the universe but it doesn’t mean that rules everybody everywhere for all time. So Mr. Ek Ajnabi, everything is not driven by philosophy. As I said, it is always what happens everywhere else in the world. And all the right things are not possible always. Hence, only thing I can say is be honest of your heart.

    By the way, it seems to me that you are surfing philosophy.com these days. 😉

    rgds.

  52. Nidhi said

    Ajnabiji, i seriously appreciate your thinking.
    The true love is still existing,but sometimes it makes a person deadly painful,so I think it is better to keep a distance from it. There is one thing I must say, these days people just ignore your feelings. Before marriage they enjoy each other’s company, they commit to each other, they will treat you as a partner but when it comes to act they cheat nd in fact it might make you cry. It’s the end!

  53. Vishal said

    Love, Family, Trust. All one in the same, if one is betrayed all will fail. Love is an instinct to make you mate. If you are respectful and worthy of your mate, the good taste of your relationship will make the vibration of love you are feeling.

  54. Nidhi said

    It is not an instinct nd it does not come naturally as we think. I am talking about a story that rings true for. I have seen the pain of a broken heart. If you fall in love nd it doesn’t work out, you get a broken heart. Don’t you see how much pain love causes? I think it’s still kind of risky game.

  55. karthik said

    It is a risky game but we must not refuse to take the risk, a very healthy risk, of trying to find that which every human being needs and wants, to love and be loved.

  56. mehhekk said

    jitna tumne prakhar likha hai,vaise hi prakhar comments bhi,hm,good,love is unending topic,its emotion,flow in it.

  57. Roushan said

    “कहते है जिसे इश्क खलल है दिमाग का ”

    ग़ालिब ने कहा था
    अब मामला है कि आप इस केमिकल लोचे को किस तरह हैंडिल करते हैं

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